Testing time has arrived. Over the years, my family’s experience with CAASPP has looked a little different every time. We’ve had test sessions filled with tears, wiggly bodies, pulling teeth to get through a single question, and LOTS of breaks. And we’ve also had years where my kids powered through with focus and surprising determination. Every year, I’m reminded that what matters most is not the score—it’s the effort, resilience, and positive attitude they bring to the table.
One thing that has helped tremendously is having a reward or something fun to look forward to after the test. It doesn’t have to be big—just something that acknowledges their hard work and helps them connect effort with celebration.
Here are some of our favorite reward ideas, both at home and around town:
🎟 Local Outings:
- Effie Yeaw Nature Center – Free admission and beautiful nature trails for a relaxing reset
- Nimbus Fish Hatchery – Quick, educational, and fun for curious minds
- Safetyville USA – A hands-on mini city that’s fun and unique
- A sweet treat outing – Think Baskin-Robbins, Menchie’s, or a trip to a favorite local bakery
- Library field trip – Let them choose a new book, check out an activity kit, or explore a new-to-you branch
🏡 At-Home Celebrations:
- A “Yes Day” (within reason!) where your child gets to plan the afternoon
- A cozy movie night with popcorn and their pick of the film
- A small prize or surprise – new art supplies, a cool activity book, or a new game
- A celebration picnic at a favorite park or even in the backyard
💬 Words That Stick: What You Can Say to Support Your Child
More than any prize or outing, our words have the power to shape how our kids see themselves. During testing season, I try to be intentional about speaking encouragement over my kids—not just about what they accomplish, but about who they are and how they show up:
- “I saw how hard you worked today—and that means more to me than any score.”
- “You didn’t give up, even when it was tough. That’s what makes me proud.”
- “It’s okay if something felt hard—trying your best is what counts.”
- “You’ve grown so much this year, and this test is just one small part of your story.”
- “You’re learning how to do hard things—and that’s a superpower.”
So whether your child flies through testing or needs plenty of support (and snacks) along the way, know that you’re not alone. Show up with encouragement, celebrate the effort, and remind them that they are more than any score.
We’re walking through this together—and the journey is worth celebrating.
Kindly, Kara